On Coolness

Dear Jacob, 


Never for a moment doubt the fact that "Cool" doesn't exist.
Daddy and I are so unbelievably not "Cool" that it's sometimes not funny.  Even all the famous people that everyone thinks are "Cool" - soooo not "Cool."
The reality is that smart people cannot be cool.  It's just not possible.  Every superstar, supermodel, rock star, movie star, author, etc that is worth admiring is a geek, nerd, or dork on the inside.  The only difference between those people and the rest of us, is they have a greater need to please, more drive to achieve, or more curiosity.
If you want to have the appearance of "Cool" it takes hard work, determination, and not caring what others think of you along the way.  You are the only person who will be able to tell if you are truly happy and content with your life, dreams, and achievements.  Not even Daddy and I will be able to tell you what we think (and I'm sure we will), but you're the only one who will know the truth.
And that is why "Coolness" is a myth.  "Cool" only has to do with appearances.  It has nothing to do with who you are and who you can be.  Someday, someone may accuse you of being a dork (or they may even say that you're cool).  But what you have to remember is that no one's opinion matters more than yours.  If you think you're awesome, then you are - but you still have to work for it.  If you think you're unhappy, then you need to tell people (like Mumma and Daddy) so we can help you fix it.
Bottom line - you are perfect just the way you are, and I love you for just your being you - even if you are the coolest baby to ever roam the planet.


~mumma